Helping Your Teenager Cope With A Long-Distance Move

16 March 2015
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Teenagers often have a difficult time controlling their emotions on a daily basis, and it's even harder for them to deal with drastic life changes. So, don't be surprised if your teenager isn't thrilled when you tell her that your family is moving out of state. To her, moving away from her friends and extended family may seem like a death sentence. Prepare yourself for the worst, and use these tips to help your teen cope with your family's long-distance move.

Breaking the News

Even though it isn't going to be easy to break the news to your teen, don't wait until you've found a house and purchased moving supplies to talk to her about your move. Your teen needs to have enough time to cope with the situation, which means you need to talk to you teen about moving as soon as possible. A few things to keep in mind when preparing to discuss your big move with your teen include:

  • Remain calm during your talk. Allow your teen to express her feelings, whatever her feelings may be. It's time for you to listen to her.
  • Remember, it's okay if your teen gets upset. In fact, it's perfectly normal, and you shouldn't feel guilty.
  • Keep the conversation about your teen and her feelings. You can discuss other important details another time.

Make the Transition Easy

The less your teenager knows about your move, the more anxious she'll be, so it's extremely important to keep her involved during the moving process.

  • Spend time with her researching your new hometown to find out as much information about your new home as possible before you move.
  • If possible, plan your move around her school schedule. Moving at the end of the school year is less disruptive to her life so it could help put her at ease.
  • Let your teen help you look for a new home, and keep her preferences in mind so that she feels like her opinion matters.
  • Have your Internet connection set up immediately so that she has access to her friends and family back home.
  • Encourage your teen to get involved in extracurricular activities as soon as you move so that she meets a few kids her age before school starts.
  • Plan your first trip home before you move so that moving doesn't feel so permanent to your teen.

Getting Ready to Move

It's important to involve your teen in every part of the moving process, which includes sorting through your belongings and packing up your house.

  • Purchase moving supplies specifically for your teen, and allow her to pack her own things. This way, she can make sure that items that are important to her are packed with care.
  • Encourage her to pack her most important belongings last so that she has access to them immediately.
  • Encourage her to help you go through the rest of the items in your home to make sure you don't accidentally throw out something of importance to her.

Hopefully, your teen is willing to embrace change, and decides to view your upcoming move as a new adventure, but don't count on it. Instead, give her plenty of time to adjust to the upcoming changes, acknowledge her feelings, address her concerns, and keep her involved in the entire moving process to make the transition as simple as possible. To learn more about moving, contact Route 37 Self-Storage